No, I'm not trying to get you naked.
I'm not an internet creeper who has groomed you to be preyed upon.
I am someone who had to learn to disrobe from what was holding me back
and drape myself in beauty, love, and kindness.
I know it's my purpose to help women do the same.
I used to hide myself from the world (including me.)
I piled on obligations, responsibilities, duties, labels, tasks, and dysfunctional relationships.
Once upon a time there was a beautiful princess named Jaime.
She didn't know she was beautiful and she had no clue she was a princess. She looked around at the world and saw how gorgeous all of the people were. She could see that THEY ARE ROYAL.
She didn't believe that she had the same advantages of all of the others. She grabbed onto their beauty and importance with all her might. She did whatever she could do for all of them. She did this whenever she could, even if it took her last piece of time, energy, and/or sanity. THEY were worth it.
She didn't sleep much. She didn't have any personal hobbies, she was rarely alone. She decided that her only need in life was to fill the needs of others.
One day Jaime ran into someone she once knew. The old friend asked her what she was up to. "How's life?"
Jaime responded happily, "Friend A is doing so good and everything's looking up. Friend B has moved away and started a new job. Parents are.... Siblings are.... Friend D, E, F........."
And it hit her.
She didn't have a damn thing going on in her life.
Not because she was being private or modest but because she didn't have a DAMN thing going on in HER life. She had her hand on a whole bunch of other people's things. But her "life" was purely doing the bidding of others... People who were totally capable and didn't even need all her doing.
She forced functional relationships to be dysfunctional by enabling...
Because if she wasn't everything to everyone, then who the hell was she?
She's Jaime F-ing Boots!
That's who she is.
And she's a
mermaid, princess, rockstar, unicorn!
You may be wondering,
"What the hell does this have to do with me taking my hideous dress off?"
I'm getting there... I promise... but first...